Ngombono wendabuko womphakathi: Amadoda anesifiso esinamandla sokunqoba abesifazane. Amadoda asebenza kakhulu kunabesifazane ekubambisaneni kwabo. Imvamisa banezidingo ezingenamzwelo ezingokomzwelo. Bazokhathazeka ngabesifazane abahle ngokulandelana futhi baphuphe ukuya ocansini nabo. Kepha ingabe amadoda anjengale?
Ku-Bowie Tsang's Internet, sabona la madoda. Bashiye abesifazane futhi bakhetha onodoli abadala bezocansi ngoba balimale ngokomoya.
Kungcono babe nonodoli abadala ophelele kodwa abaphelele, bangahle basebenzise imali eningi ukuze bathuthukise unodoli wabo oxhomeko, bangahle baphile ngesakhiwo sabo esimnandi, bebengeke basondele kwabesifazane.
Kaningi, sizobona inzuzo yendoda ebonakalayo. Angaba nomoya omubi ongadala ukulimala emzimbeni wowesifazane, kodwa siyakhohlwa ukuthi azange ziphathwe ngesisa. Bayesaba futhi ukuhlaselwa kwabesifazane.
Ngokusebenzisa "Ngaphambi kusasa", siyazi ukuthi onodoli abadala bezocansi bangavuselelwa futhi bangasetwa kumuntu wakho owuthandayo, kepha babambe unomvu othandekayo ongasetha ubuntu bakho banganelisa ngempela ukungabi nalutho kokomoya?
Owesilisa: "Umshado wami wahlala iminyaka engu-15, futhi ekugcineni wawa ngohlukana. Ngangicindezeleka kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi. Ngavele ngingenze ngabomvu futhi angisenazingcindezi kocansi.
Abantu bangase bacabange ukuthi lolu hlobo lwento luyindida, futhi ngiyaliqonda. Kepha abazi ngempela ukuthi kunjani ukusebenzisa laba bonodoli abadala bezocansi. Ngonodoli wezocansi, uzothola okufunayo. Lokhu kuzokwenza ube nentshisekelo kakhulu.
Anginayo imicabango mayelana nonodoli bezocansi abadala. Lapho ngifuna ukuba nonodoli bezocansi, ngivele ngibeke leso sihlalo ekhoneni, hlala esihlalweni bese ngiphuza ubhiya, ngibabuke, bese ngiyazi ukuthi yimuphi umuntu ongiheha kakhulu.
Isikhathi sePosi: Nov-30-2023
