I-salicone yangempela yocingoUthola kanjani ukuthola kabusha umdlandla wobuntwana bakho? Impendulo, ngiyakholelwa, ngilele eZwini uqobo. "Intshiseko" ivela kumaGrikhi futhi isho ukuthi "uNkulunkulu ngaphakathi." Futhi yini uNkulunkulu ngaphakathi kothando kodwa uthando oluhlala luthando - uthando olufanele lokuzenzela (ukuzemukela) futhi, kusuka kulokho, uthando lwabanye.Abantu abanomdlandla nabo bayakuthanda abakwenzayo, noma ngabe banemali noma isihloko noma amandla. Uma singeke senze lokho esikuthandayo njengesikhathi esigcwele?U-Elizabeth uLayton wase Wellsville, kan, wayeneminyaka engama-68 ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukudweba. Lo msebenzi waphela ukucindezelwa kokudangala owawumhluphe okungenani iminyaka engama-30, futhi ikhwalithi yomsebenzi wakhe iholele ekutheni umuntu ogxekwayo athi, "Ngilingeka ukuba ngibize i-layton ubuhlakani." U-Elizabeth waphinde wathola umdlandla wakhe.Ngeke sikwazi ukuchitha izinyembezi ku- "kungenzeka-abebekhona." Sidinga ukuguqula izinyembezi zibe izithukuthuku njengathi sihamba ngemuva kokuthi "yini-engenzeka."Sidinga ukuhlala isikhathi ngasinye ngenhliziyo yonke, ngakho konke izinzwa zethu - ukuthola injabulo ngephunga lengadi elisemuva, isithombe esibekiwe somuntu oneminyaka eyisithupha, ubuhle obudala bube ngumnyama. Kuwuthando olunomdlandla wokuphila olubeka ukugqama emehlweni ethu, ukuthandwa ngezinyathelo zethu futhi kubusheleleke imibimbi emiphefumulweni yethu.Umuntu ophelele akayena "ajulile kakhulu" futhi une-cheeky, indlela edlalayo lapho uxoxa nabanye. Ubuye agweme futhi imimoya newayini, kepha uthanda isidlo esihle senyama enobhiya obandayo ngokuthakazelisa, amaphesenti angama-86 alabo abavotelwayo athi afuna athi afuna ukuthi athi "Ngiyakuthanda" kuphela lapho esho ukuthi kuphela lapho esho ukuthi. Kuyaqinisa ukwazi ukuthi abesifazane abakhethi kakhulu, kepha uma bafuna ukugcina uhlu lokuhlola, ama-bloke angahle abe nezicelo ezimbalwa zazo. Ngokwe-Straw Poll ehhovisi lethu, abafana bavame ukuthanda abesifazane abahle kakhulu, ukulungiswa okuphansi, okuthethelelayo, okumnandi futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi esimweni sokugculisa noma yiziphi izidingo zocansi.

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