Njengoba imboni yocingo yezocansi ikhule futhi ibe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, manje zonke izinhlobo zonodoli ezitholakala emakethe, kufaka phakathi onodoli abakhulu bezocansi, futhi nonodoli bezocansi be-Flat esifubeni, kanye nonodoli bezocansi be-shemale sex. Ngakho-ke, yiluphi uhlobo olithandayo? Woza, ake sihlole izinketho ezihlukile ezitholakalayo.

Okokuqala, ake sibheke onodoli abakhulu be-booped sex. Labo onodoli benzelwe ukunakekela labo abadonsekela emabeleni amakhulu. Bafika kuzo zonke izinhlobo nosayizi, futhi abanye banezingono ezingokoqobo nama-areolas. Kepha kuthiwani uma ungeyena fan wamabele amakhulu? Yilapho kungena khona onodoli we-flat esifubeni.

Njengoba igama libonisa, laba onodoli benzelwe amabele amancane noma anamabele nhlobo. Abanye abantu bathola onodoli bezocansi abafungiswe ngocansi abakhanga ngokwengeziwe, njengoba benikeza i-petite kanye nokubukeka kobusha. Kodwa-ke, kukhona nalabo abathanda ukubukeka okuningana kwe-androgynous, okuyilapho kungena khona onodoli be-transgender noma i-shemale.

Ama-transgender noma onodoli bezocansi be-shemale ngokuvamile bane-genitalia yabesilisa nabesifazane, futhi ingasetshenziselwa izinhloso ezahlukahlukene. Banganikeza isipiliyoni esiyingqayizivele kulabo abafuna ukuhlola ubulili babo futhi bavivinye imicabango emisha.

Ekugcineni, uhlobo lomvu onodoli wezocansi owukhethayo luzoncika kokuthandwayo kanye nezifiso zakho. Kubalulekile ukubheka ukuthi yiziphi izici ezibalulekile kuwe, futhi yini ezokunikeza injabulo nokwaneliseka.

Uma kukhulunywa ngokuthenga unodoli wezocansi, kunezinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzigcine engqondweni. Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuthi uthenga enkampanini ehlonishwayo esebenzisa izinto ezisezingeni eliphakeme namasu okwakha. Lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi unodoli wakho uzohlala isikhathi eside futhi unikeze okuhlangenwe nakho okunengqondo.

Okwesibili, cabanga ngosayizi nesisindo sonodoli wakho. Ngokuya ngesimo sakho sokuphila, ungahle ufune ukukhetha unodoli omncane noma ongasindi okwelula ukuhambisa nokugcina. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma unesikhala esizinikezele sonodoli wakho, ungahle ufune ukuya inketho enkulu futhi enengqondo.

Ekugcineni, ungesabi ukuzama futhi uzame izinhlobo ezahlukene zonodoli bezocansi. Ungathola ukuthi okuthandayo kuguquka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma ukuthi kunezinye izici ozijabulelayo ongazibheki ngaphambili. Ngezinketho eziningi kangaka zitholakala, isibhakabhaka umkhawulo uma kuziwa ekuhloleni ubulili bakho futhi uzitholele imicabango yakho.

Ngakho-ke, uluphi uhlobo lodoli lwezocansi oluthandayo? Ngabe ukudonswa onodoli abakhulu be-booped sex, onodoli be-chest esifubeni, noma onodoli be-shemale sex? Noma ngabe yini oyithandayo, kukhona okuqinisekile ukuthi ungayilangazelela lapho lokho kuzokunikeza injabulo enkulu nokwaneliseka. Ngakho-ke woza, ake sihlole futhi sitholele unodoli ofanele wezocansi.