Onodoli bezocansi obufana nempilo, eyaziwa nangokuthi onodoli bezocansi ongokoqobo noma onodoli bothando, bathole ukuthandwa okubalulekile eminyakeni yamuva. Labo onodoli benzelwe ukufana eduze nomzimba womuntu futhi banikeze okuhlangenwe nakho okungokoqobo kwezocansi. Ngenkathi abanye bephikisana ngokuthi laba onodoli banikezela ubungani futhi bafeze izifiso ezithile, abanye bababheka njengokufakazela nokulimaza umona.

Umehluko owodwa osemqoka phakathi konodoli bezocansi obufana nempilo nobudlelwano bangempela ukungabikho kokuxhumana okungokomzwelo. Ebudlelwaneni bangempela, ukusondelana ngokomzwelo kudlala indima ebalulekile ekwakheni ukwethembana nokuqonda phakathi kwabalingani. Kodwa-ke, ngonodoli bezocansi, akukho okungenzeka kokubopha okungokomzwelo noma ukuphindisela kwemizwa.

Enye into okufanele icatshangelwe yimiphumela yokuziphatha yokusebenzisa onodoli bezocansi obufana nempilo. Abagxeki bathi laba onodoli bakhuthaza ukubhekisisa kwabesifazane ngokuwanciphisa ezintweni nje zokuzanelisa ngokocansi. Bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kungathuthukisa ama-stereotypes ayingozi wobulili futhi bafake isandla kwizimpahla zemizimba yabesifazane.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abasekeli baphikisana ngokuthi laba onodoli bahlinzeka ngokuphuma kwabantu abalwa nesizungu noma banobunzima bakhe ubudlelwane obuseduze ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene njengokukhathazeka kwezenhlalo noma ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba. Kubo, laba onodoli banikela ngobungani ngaphandle kwesahlulelo noma ukwenqatshwa.

Ekuphetheni, onodoli bezocansi abanjengonocansi baletha isihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi ngemibono ehlukile. Ngenkathi zinganikeza ukwaneliseka kwesikhashana kwabanye abafuna injabulo emzimbeni noma ubungane, kubalulekile ukucubungula umthelela wabo wokubona kwabo emphakathini wobudlelwano nobudlelwano nobulili.