Isini sokwenyani se-siliconeUfumana njani inzondelelo yobuntwana bakho? Impendulo, ndiyakholelwa, ilele kwiLizwi ngokwalo. "Inkuthazo" ivela esiGrike kwaye ithetha "uThixo ngaphakathi." Kwaye yintoni uThixo ngaphakathi kodwa imvakalelo yothando-uthando olufanelekileyo lokuzenzela (ngokwamkela) kwaye, kuthabathela kuloo nto, thanda abanye.Abantu abanomdla nabo bayathanda le nto bayenzayo, ngaphandle kwemali okanye isihloko okanye amandla. Ukuba asinakukwenza oko sikuthandayo? Umsebenzi osisigxina?U-Elizabeth Felton waseFelsville, uKan, wayeneminyaka engama-68 ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukutsala. Lo msebenzi uphele uxinzelelo oluye lwayibeka iminyaka engama-30 ubuncinci, kwaye umgangatho wakhe wakhokelela omnye umgxeki ukuba uthi, "Ndilingelwa ukuba ndibize i-dayton genius." U-Elizabeth iphinde yayifumana inzondelelo.Asinakukwazi ukuhlawula iinyembezi kwinye iinyembezi "ngoMeyi." Kufuneka siguqule iinyembezi zibe sweat njengoko sihamba emva "kwento."Kufuneka siphile ngalo lonke ixesha ngentliziyo iphela, kunye nazo zonke iimvakalelo zethu-efumana ulonwabo kwivumba leyasemva leyadi, umfanekiso wendlela onobuhle bomdala oneminyaka emithandathu, ubuhle obunomzimba bomnyama. Kukuthanda kakhulu kobomi obubeka inkqanto emehlweni ethu, inxeba ngamanqanaba ethu kunye nokugungqa imiphetho kwimiphefumlo yethu.Indoda egqibeleleyo ayinguye "nzulu kakhulu" kwaye ine-cheeking, indlela edlalwa xa ndincokola nabanye. Unqanda iwayini kunye nemimoya, kodwa uthanda inyama entle enesizathu sokubandezeleka okubangela umdla, iipesenti ezingama-86 zabo bathe bafuna ukuba bathethe indoda enobuthathaka, ngelixa eyithethayo. Kuyasiqinisekisa ukuba abafazi abaphikisi kakhulu, kodwa ukuba bafuna ukugcina uluhlu lokutshekisha, iibhluks zinokuba nezicelo ezimbalwa zezabo. Ngokutsho koPhicotywe kwi-ofisi yethu, abantu bathanda ukuba nabafazi abahle, ukulungiswa okuphantsi, baxolela, bonwabe kwaye behlala bekwimeko yokwanelisa iimfuno zesondo.

Sinemithombo yesondo e-USA, iJamani kunye ne-Belgium yendawo yokugcina izilwanyana, ukuba ufuna nceda uzive ukhululekileNxibelelana nathi ngaphambi kokubekwa iodolo, enkosi!?